Assuming you have some freshman-college math literacy, here are a few great introductory books to Probability theory:
Introduction To Probability by D. Bertsekas & J. Tsitsiklis https://www.amazon.com/Introduction-Probability-2nd-Dimitri-... Elementary Probability Theory: With Stochastic Processes and an Introduction to Mathematical Finance by K. L. Chung & F. AitSahlia https://www.amazon.com/Elementary-Probability-Theory-Introdu... An Introduction to Probability Theory and Its Applications Vol. 1 by W. Feller https://www.amazon.com/Introduction-Probability-Theory-Appli...I'm sure there are some great video lectures on the subject as well, but unfortunately I can't point you to any relevant material since textbooks is what I used when I was in college. But if I had to guess, the latest relevant MIT OCW course that has video lectures available would be sufficient.
Venkatesh's more recent volume [2] is very well motivated and is better suited to modern engineering applications. Both have lots of exercises.
[1] https://www.amazon.com/Introduction-Probability-Theory-Appli...
[2] https://www.amazon.com/Theory-Probability-Explorations-Appli...
* Calculus
* Real Analysis
* Statistical Mechanics
* Probability
I'm not sure I have any good recommendations for Calculus, but for real analysis, I would recommend "The Way of Analysis" by Strichartz [0].
I don't have good recommendations for books on statistical mechanics, as I haven't found a book that isn't entrenched in coming from a physics perspective and teaches the underlying methods and algorithms. The best I can recommend is "Complexity and Criticality" by Christensen and Moloney [1], but it's pretty far afield of statistical mechanics and the like. Simulating percolation, the Ising model and ricepiles uses a lot of the same methods as financial simulation (MCMC, etc.).
For probability, I would recommend "Probability and Computing" by Mitzenmacher and Upfal [2], "Probability ..." by Durrett [3] and Feller Vol. 1 and 2 [4] [5] for reference.
I also would recommend "Frequently asked questions in Quantitative Finance" by Wilmott [6].
Also know that there's a quantitative finance SO [7] that might be helpful.
[0] https://www.amazon.com/Analysis-Revised-Jones-Bartlett-Mathe...
[1] https://www.amazon.com/COMPLEXITY-CRITICALITY-Imperial-Colle...
[2] https://www.amazon.com/Probability-Computing-Randomization-P...
[3] https://www.amazon.com/Probability-Theory-Examples-Durrett-H...
[4] https://www.amazon.com/Introduction-Probability-Theory-Appli...
[5] https://www.amazon.com/Introduction-Probability-Theory-Appli...
[6] https://www.amazon.com/Frequently-Asked-Questions-Quantitati...
[7] https://quant.stackexchange.com/