I really don’t like the framing here. To be blunt, this person is being a jerk.
For a real discussion on the process of making art of any kind, I recommend reading [Art and Fear](https://www.amazon.com/Art-Fear-Observations-Rewards-Artmaki...) by David Bayles and Ted Orland. It’s a lot more insightful about human nature than calling people lairs for falling into the same patterns that have existed since Art has existed.
I’m a fan of the audio book but definitely listen to the sample first. The narrator may not be to your taste.
Art & Fear: Observations On the Perils (and Rewards) of Artmaking
by David Bayes and Ted Orland
https://www.amazon.com/Art-Fear-Observations-Rewards-Artmaki...
It takes extreme dedication and an iron will to keep up a full time artistic practice.
If anyone is interested in the working/day to day of artists I suggest the following books:
inside the painter's studio (Joe Fig): https://www.amazon.com/Inside-Artists-Studio-Joe-Fig/dp/1616...
Art&Fear (David Bayle) https://www.amazon.com/Art-Fear-Observations-Rewards-Artmaki...
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https://www.amazon.com/Art-Fear-Observations-Rewards-Artmaki...
You learn very early to divorce your ego and sense of self from your artworks and embrace every attempt as an opportunity to improve towards an ideal you can never reach.
You also learn how to give meaningful criticism without being an asshole.
Writing code is very much the same.
Unfortunately, most software engineers haven't been to art school and have no formal training in how to give and receive useful feedback.
I recommend reading Art & Fear: Observations On the Perils (and Rewards) of Artmaking. It's a good book that helps you build a healthy mindset towards growing as a creative:
https://www.amazon.com/Art-Fear-Observations-Rewards-Artmaki...