An even better (or possibly the same, I'm just restating you more verbosely) recommendation would be one which gave you a mental framework to help you organize your thoughts around the situation so that you can be confident in exercising your own judgment.

Books which are good for helping lay out such a mental framework include:

- https://www.amazon.co.uk/Decisive-How-Make-Better-Decisions/...

- https://www.amazon.co.uk/Too-Good-Leave-Bad-Stay/dp/07181417...