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marttt · 2023-06-29 · Original thread
"Child is father to the man," as William Wordsworth put it. Congratulations to all three (+? :) of you!

I'm in the EU, and in my country, this book by Anna Wahlgren gets sometimes suggested: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Children-Childcare-Child-Rearing...

Definitely an "opinionated" book (the author had nine children and was married seven(!) times), but also an honest one. 700+ pages, of which I remember only one quote: "Just being there is enough." That quote has helped me many times when parenting has caused mental doubt.

Maria Montessori's books are also heartly recommended.