Read the reviews for Slicing Pie. It's about maintaining a dynamic model that eventually vest into shares (if the company works out). I read it. It's great quick read. Ideal for your situation, I think. And it may preserve your friendship.
http://www.amazon.com/Slicing-Pie-Company-Without-Funds-eboo...
You can find in on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Slicing-Pie-Company-Without-Funds-ebo...