Even the relatively good stuff stands alone and is, at best, aggressively indifferent towards its surroundings.
Kunstler wrote a good book on it:
https://www.amazon.com/Geography-Nowhere-Americas-Man-Made-L...
(and several less-good follow up books)
Some books on the topic that I have read, if you haven't are:
https://www.amazon.com/Bauhaus-Our-House-Tom-Wolfe/dp/031242...
https://www.amazon.com/Old-Way-Seeing-Architecture-Magic/dp/...
https://www.amazon.com/Geography-Nowhere-Americas-Man-Made-L...
A funny side story: I realized I was some sort of reactionary my freshman year at Berkeley, when I was standing in the memorial glade, swinging my gaze back and forth between Doe Memorial Library and Evans Hall.
http://www.amazon.com/Geography-Nowhere-Americas-Man-Made-La...
I would also add the radical individualists of the 60s who made the cities unlivable for families.
http://www.amazon.com/The-Geography-Nowhere-Americas-Landsca...
http://www.amazon.com/Bauhaus-Our-House-Tom-Wolfe/dp/0312429...
Kunstler is a bit of a crank, but his analysis of the problems with modern architecture and urbanism are very good. Wolfe, of course, is a genius, and his very short book is a fantastic and deeply funny (if depressing) read.