I find it's really more a practical guide, less so a "recipe of success" that other self-help tend to be.
https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
For a more universal perspective on leadership (and management) John Maxwell is solid. Easy to read practical advice in a "I knew that but this is a good reminder" sort of way.
Given your founder background you might also appreciate "The Advantage" by Patrick Lencioni. It's more C Level, but much of can apply to a team (e.g., the importance of trust, a feeling of purpose, etc.)
https://www.amazon.com/Advantage-Patrick-Lencioni/dp/8126537...
There are others. This topic or similar comes up from time to time on HN. I'd try the search. It's in the footer if you've never noticed.
https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
* Staff Engineer- Great for the tech challenges beyond senior-level https://staffeng.com/book
* The Manager's Path- Good even if you're not going to be a manager. Understanding their perspective makes you more effective https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
* An Elegant Puzzle- What if distributed systems engineering, but with people? https://lethain.com/elegant-puzzle/
Have you started to train yourself as a lead / manager? A couple of resources I've found useful in the switch have been Manager Tools [0] (book, site, and podcast) as well as The Manager's Path [1].
While his shtick can be a bit thick at times, I enjoyed Extreme Ownership by Willink [2], if only because it codified a lot of thoughts I've had for a long time. I've worked with a lot of military and defence so the stories and life views he teaches through didn't throw me, but I know it does for some people so YMMV.
I have found that the Manager's Tools suggestion that the single best thing you can do is have weekly one-on-ones with your team to be true. It can be tough, especially if you still have a lot of your IC responsibilities alongside your new team lead roles, but it is truly remarkable how much more insight you can get into what your team is thinking from holding these sessions. This is they crystal ball you are looking for. And remember, the weeklies are about your team members, not about you (refer to manager tools).
[0] https://www.manager-tools.com/products/effective-manager-boo...
[1] https://www.amazon.ca/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Growt...
[2] https://www.amazon.ca/Extreme-Ownership-U-S-Navy-SEALs/dp/12...
I recommend The Manager's Path by Camille Fournier. It takes you all the way from individual contributor to CTO. https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
The book written by Camille Fournier to be quite a guide to understanding the path.
https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
At the end of the day, and if money is not a motivating factor, I would recommend you to go where you are most happy now and in the future.
OPP is also a forcing function for leadership. It forces true leaders to step up and make the hard choices.
If you're faced with OPP, here are a few things I found useful in my career.
## Do Important Work for Important People
The best way to be successful in any organization is to do important work for important people. Important work for unimportant people will get you no where. Same is true for unimportant work for important people.
Take a look at your OPP and ask yourself:
* Is this work for someone important?
* Is this work important to that person?
Both answers should be yes, otherwise it's just OPP.
## Let Fires Burn
Once you decide the work is OPP, then you need the courage to say no. You must let that fire continue to burn without it distracting you. Masters of Scale has a good episode on this topic [2]. Easier said than done of course. I found Stoic practices to be very helpful here [3].
## Customer Obsession & Ownership
OPP should always be evaluated through the lens of the customer. Bottom line, the customer is always the most important person and they trump all. True leaders are obsessed about providing a better customer experience and they're willing to pay the price in order to do so.
If you have OPP that's important work for someone important, but it's not important to the customer, then you may just have to let that one burn too. And once you make that call, you have to own it. Always take responsibility for the decision and defend it on the customer's behalf.
I've found Amazon's leadership principles to be invaluable when making these type of tough decisions [4]. It's no coincidence that Customer Obsession and Ownership are #1 and #2.
[1] http://amzn.to/2niWhO9 (Camille's link not mine)
[2] https://mastersofscale.com/selina-tobaccowala-let-fires-burn...
[3] https://www.amazon.com/Obstacle-Way-Timeless-Turning-Triumph...
https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
This post is written by the author of The Manager's Path, which I also recommend: https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
- make sure this is something you want
[0] https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
They can be tough conversations, but rewarding on both sides.
If you are leading a team of devs at the very least read these 2 books:-
https://www.amazon.ca/Managing-Humans-Humorous-Software-Engi...
https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
[0]: https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
As a manager, one of the most important things you can do is schedule regular 1 on 1's with the people who report to you. Both "The Manager's Path"[1] and "Behind Closed Doors"[2] stresses this.
In about 4 months, it'll be helpful to review PG's essay, Maker's Schedule, Manager's Schedule[3] Right now, you'll be coding most of your time, but you'll soon have more and more meetings. MSMS names the feeling of frustration around meetings, and describes how to handle so many meetings.
[1] https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...
[2] https://www.amazon.com/Behind-Closed-Doors-Management-Progra...
Make sure your own management know that you are interested in this path.
The book The Manager's path has excellent advice on ways you can prepare yourself for management positions: https://www.amazon.com/Managers-Path-Leaders-Navigating-Grow...