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I have found a lot of books on the subject but most rightly titled books seemed to have only tips and tricks. Some are really good but don't really hit the sweet spot for me.

This book is good but and example of what I am talking about.

But the ones I have had the most success with are the Neuro Linguistic Programming books by John Grinder and Richard Bandler.

Also this is great for learning how to digest technical and college books.

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c00p3r · 2009-03-29 · Original thread
The Man-Month is enough! =)

Btw, there is another 33 years old book which is still worth reading -

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