Here's a "This American Life" episode where they interview one person - it's act two - http://www.thisamericanlife.org/Radio_Episode.aspx?sched=123...

One book I read on the topic that I can remember is "The Testosterone Files" - http://www.amazon.com/Testosterone-Files-Hormonal-Social-Tra...

The author does an excellent job of describing his experience and the differences he noticed between being a women versus being a man.