Two of my favorite books:
The Works: Anatomy of a City https://www.amazon.com/Works-Anatomy-City-Kate-Ascher/dp/159...
What Do People Do All Day https://www.amazon.com/Richard-Scarrys-What-People-World/dp/...
https://www.amazon.com/Works-Anatomy-City-Kate-Ascher/dp/014...
http://www.amazon.com/The-Works-Anatomy-Kate-Ascher/dp/01431...
And if you like that, you'll REALLY love Brian Hayes' Infrastructure: A Field Guide to the Industrial Landscape (http://www.amazon.com/Infrastructure-Field-Guide-Industrial-...). It's porn for people who like to try to figure out what the random towers in a chemical plant do, or how the electrical station you just passed on the interstate works.
The Works: Anatomy of a City.
my GF got it for her post grad architecture degree and i found it really well illustrated and interesting! For example it outlines the steam grid in NYC and current vs historic uses
https://www.amazon.com/Works-Anatomy-City-Kate-Ascher/dp/014...