"... We want to replicate the way dating works in the real world online. ..."
Isn't the real world process broken? Are you taking into account "Gutentag Secord theory?" [0]
"... the non-committers are out there in growing force. If dating and mating is in fact a marketplace—and of course it is—today we’re contending with a new “dating gap,” where marriage-minded women are increasingly confronted with either deadbeats or players. ..." [1]
Isn't the real world process broken? Are you taking into account "Gutentag Secord theory?" [0]
"... the non-committers are out there in growing force. If dating and mating is in fact a marketplace—and of course it is—today we’re contending with a new “dating gap,” where marriage-minded women are increasingly confronted with either deadbeats or players. ..." [1]
Are you trying to solve this problem?
[0] Marcia Guttentag, Paul F.Secord ~ http://www.amazon.com/Too-Many-Women-Ratio-Question/dp/08039...
[1] Atlantic, Kate Bolick, "All the Single Ladies" ~ http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2011/11/all-the-...