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mountaineer · 2014-02-26 · Original thread
There's a book I'm just beginning, When Helping Hurts[1], that dives into this subject deeper. Complicated for sure.

[1] http://www.amazon.com/When-Helping-Hurts-Alleviate-Yourself/...

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